N3il’s Blog

After no health updates for a while, then 2 health updates come along at once! Just like buses!

A couple of days ago in my latest blog, I mentioned I was now expecting my treatment to start at the end of July unless a cancellation comes along. Sue and I were disappointed to hear this because it meant waiting longer for the treatment to start and it could also affect our already booked holiday and the rest of Sue’s school holidays. 

Last night we met with a group of other friends from our church and we asked them to pray specifically that the date might be brought forward, specifically to early July.  So whether you have any faith or not, we believed that someone was listening. So I want to give testimony to the power of prayer.

This afternoon (Thursday) I received a call from the Nuclear team at Guy’s, to say that they had now managed to get me an earlier date for my treatment. Which would now start on the 6 July. Thank you God for our answer to prayer.

Sometimes we do wait a long time for answers, but at other times God hears us and acts immediately. God is good. 

Thanks again for all your prayers and support.

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Over the last 10 years, lots of you have supported me and my family on our journey with cancer, which we as a family have really appreciated. I haven’t posted any updates since October 2016, which is good news as my health has been very stable since then. But I now do have some news to share with you all.

I still have an annual MRI scan and review with the team at Guys Hospital. My latest scan in December was a PET scan, my consultant called me a week later, which was a week before Christmas to let me know that something new had shown up on the scan, but he told me not to worry, as he would see me at our January appointment. So obliviously we didn’t worry much over Christmas! Not!

At the appointment, we were told there were some new areas of interest showing up in my chest and small spots elsewhere that need to be investigated further. My consultant Mr Obholzer also said that after 9 years clear he was surprised something new had now shown up. My case would need to be discussed at the next Multi-Discipline Team (MDT) meeting. We also talked about options. One of those options being a nuclear medicine treatment.

Sue and myself this week met the Nuclear Medicine team to talk about the direction of my treatment and get more information from them. We found out more details about the tumour so I have an area in my chest with larger growth and also have smaller spots on my lungs and on my spine.

The consultant then explained the way ahead. My particular tumour type is slowly growing and can respond well to a treatment with a radioactive drug called ‘Lutahera’. This drug has the ability to target and attach itself to any cancer cells and in turn kills these cells. The treatment will mean me being in hospital for around 24 hrs after a drug infusion and will mean I will be radioactive up to 2 weeks. I can meet with people but need to keep at a 2-meter distance away, Nothing new as we’ve practiced this during lockdown. I am likely to need up to 4 treatments with an 8-week gap between treatments and is unlikely to start until June.

We also found out that Guy’s hospital is the only hospital in the UK that offers this treatment and there are only 2 doctors who specialize in this area of medicine. So I feel very thankful that I am under this great team at Guy’s.

I have felt surprisingly calm and peaceful since finding out his news and understanding the way ahead, as the outlook doesn’t feel quite as daunting, compared to my original diagnosis and treatment which did have a very bleak outlook. As most of you know I have my Christian faith which I believe has got me through the tough times in the past and will get me through these coming months.

I do recall these words from one of my surgeons, Dr. Richard Oakley, who said to me at one of my reviews these words “You’ve had a remarkable recovery and you know, you’re a bit of a miracle!” He then went on to say “and you’ve also dodged a lot of bullets in the process and survived”. I told him “I’m here by the grace of God” after both Sue and myself had a number of conversations with him about our faith over the last couple of years. 

We really have appreciated all the support that so many of you have given us over the last 10 years and we value your ongoing support and prayers over these coming months. I will try to keep you updated on this blog, as and when we have any new news to share with you.

Thanks Neil & Sue

It’s been a while again since my last blog page and it’s now nearly 3 years since the my initial operation in November 2013 and the start of my ongoing treatment. It’s also been a busy year in the Jeremy household for which I will be writing about in our Christmas communications. 

But for now I just want to update you all on the outcome of my latest hospital trips. At the beginning of October I had my annual MRI scan, which was a 2 hours session that scanned my whole body. So after waiting for nearly a month to find the results, Sue and myself attended an appointment at the new cancer centre at Guys hospital yesterday 26 October, which I must say is a very nice new building, although yesterday they was having a computer system nightmare.

I wasn’t actually looking forward to this appointment getting the results from the scan, but we met with the oncology consultant Dr Mary Lei. Mary then told us that the whole team had reviewed the scans and that there had been no changes and everything had remained stable and they was all pleased with the current situation and no further action was currently needed. This as you can imagine was a massive relief to both Sue and myself.

I now only need to have 1x MRI scan a year and less appointments. but I still have another appointment next week with the head and neck surgeon Mr Rubert Obholzer, but this again should be a fairly routine appointment.

So we can again relax and enjoy life and make plans for next year!

Thanks you all again for your ongoing love, support and prayers. I do believe that Jesus and father God have been watching over me and it’s a miracle that I have pulled thought all this treatment and which has been against the all odds and by the grace of God I can live another day. Thank you God.

This Saturday, 15 February was my 48th birthday.

The kids were all away for the weekend, the first time ever all 3 have been away together and how nice it would have been to have a great day out, eating, theatre etc! But to be honest I was just not up to doing anything, although we have seen slow improvements this week, I just didn’t have the energy to do anything. It was going to be a very quiet day.  So after trying to catch up on a bit of sleep in the morning,  Sue woke me up and presented me with a pile of cards.

That’s when the day got better!

As I started on opening the cards, there seemed to be more than I would normally expect, which would usually be about 6, but this pile had a least 20! The usual family cards were there, but most of them were from friends who wouldn’t normally know it was birthday anyway. Each card contained words to encourage me and another bit of paper which had a value of its own (money).

I must say I was totally blown away and wasn’t quite sure what was going on. But it certainly brightened up what was promising to be a quiet day. By the time I got dressed and went downstairs there were more cards through the letterbox and this trend continued through the whole day. By time we went to bed I had received 48 cards like this and all of these cards were from friends in the ‘Band of Brothers’.  It was like a constant shower of blessing throughout the day.

The ‘Band of Brothers’ is a group of 90+ men at the church and for the last 5 years I have been involved in running this group of men. They have been an amazing encouragement to me and the family during the course of my illness. It is this group of guys who have travelled daily with me for my radiotherapy sessions to Guys. It was Maurice Clarke who organised this day of blessings, as a way to bless and encourage me during my time of recovery. Thank you guys it has done the job it intended and it definitely made our quiet day one to remember.

Thanks
Neil

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